Was choppin' up game with The Peacemaker last night about naturals and why we're so good with women. And we came up with a few key characteristics, just by looking at ourselves and other naturals we know who're extremely good with women. The first characteristic is that as soon as we meet a woman we want, we're already thinking about how we're going to be alone with her. That's how a lot of my one-night stands occur. While I'm talking to her, I'm already thinking about getting her to my place and then my bedroom. As a result, very early on in our interaction, I start leading the conversation towards my end goal. For instance, if I know that she likes art, I'm already thinking ten steps ahead and setting her up to go look at some artwork at my or her place.
1. Intro
2. The second key characteristic is social conditioning.
If you look at most naturals, we're all just use to being popular with women from a very early age. When most men were playing their videogames in high school, we were busy fucking. I got caught up in a long term relationship, but within about a year, everything came back to me naturally with women. In short, many naturals have much more experience with women than what you're led to believe. What does this mean? They know every little subtle gesture and word to turn on women, and most importantly, they INSTINCTUALLY time them PERFECTLY. Many guys have seen me and tried to mimic my ways, only to fall flat on their faces because they can't quite get my subtleties down.
3. How does this relate to you?
No matter what we teach you about our methods, the only thing that it is going to make you really great, is gaining years of experience. With experience, you'll learn the little things that are almost impossible to teach. And lastly, naturals just expect women to comply. For instance, when I talk to a girl, any girl, if I ask her to do something, I expect her to follow through with my desired outcome. When I ask for a phone number, I expect her to give it to me (And keep in mind that I NEVER get wrong phone numbers. How do I know this if I never call? I verify the number right there on the spot, and so far, no wrong numbers) . When I ask her if she's coming with me somewhere, I expect her to say yes. If I ever get rejected, it comes as a complete surprise to me.
4. My problem isn't getting women to do what I want.
My problem is following through. For example, I never call women. And if I don't like her, i have other plans, or I'm tired or whatever, I don't ask her to come home with me. I am almost never told "no". Again, this is one of those small things. When I talk to a girl, I have a winning attitude. And I don't care how hard you try, you can't fake it. Again, the way to have that attitude, and to have women believe in your attitude, is to really be a winner. It's reflected in very subtle facial expressions and voice tonalities.
5. Final Words
The above is why you read a true naturals methods, they sound simple (Paul Janka, Myself, Mode One, David X), yet you can't manage to make them work for you. It's not really the method that gets us the women, it's the little things that are almost impossible to fake and comes with years of experience and winning.